Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed – How To Pick Up Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!

Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?

Most of your friends probably don’t know how to pick up women. Your dad probably doesn’t know (and lord knows your mom couldn’t tell you)! Even the dating “experts” that you see in the media wouldn’t be able to give you the proper tactics on how to pick up women, because if they did – they’d never be able to appear on TV again! (Let’s face it, the mainstream media is extremely feminist and looks down upon anything that could help guys get laid!).

Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-correct topic!

If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you’re going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I’m about to share some with you right now…

Let me first tell you what you DON’T need to pick up women.

You DON’T need to look like a “male model.”

This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.

So if you’re insecure about your looks, don’t sweat it! There’s still hope.

Another thing is – you DON’T need to spend lots of cash or drive flashy cars!

Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I’ve ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn’t even own a car! (And the ones that do don’t drive anything special!)

If a girl really likes you, she’s not going to care how much money you make or spend on her. And the key to picking up women is to get them to like you, right?

Lastly, you DON’T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.

Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!

If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing else matters.

Unless you’re currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics – after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you’ve learned, you’ll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!

Go out as often as you’re able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you’re starting out. You don’t have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but there is no better “practice ground” in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.

But regardless, make a point of going out to pick up women a certain number of times a week – after all, practice makes perfect!

When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.

Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.

And what you’re doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!

When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as good as you possibly can!

(Notice I didn’t say “good looking.” I said “look good.” There’s a difference. You can’t control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance – your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)

Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you’re not into fashion and don’t know where to start, ask a female friend who’s very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.

Keep in mind – you don’t NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do! Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you’ll feel.

Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way. Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don’t let it pass you by!

Remember – ever good pickup follows a very simple structure. This means there’s a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.

This structure is as follows:

Find a girl.

Meet her.

Talk and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

There you go – four simple steps is all you need! If you can find, meet, and gain rapport with women, you’ll find that you can build attraction with them easily.

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